One of the biggest reasons why we fail to change is we try to manage our outward behavior but ignore why we do what we do. Disciplining your outward our actions without addressing the beliefs, wounds, needs, and unmet desires that drive them is like sticking your fingers in a fan to try to stop the blades from turning. It would be much less painful to just pull the plug! Taste of Heaven It touched me in a wa ouched me in a way few things e ew things ever have... According to Jesus, outward behavior (the turning fan blades) is driven by the heart (the motor). The secret of transformation Jesus' way is unplugging that motor and plugging into a new power source--desire fulfilled in relationship with God.Transforming the Heart shows you how to identify your heart's desires for things like love, approval, or security, understand how those desires shape your actions, and--most important--how to meet Jesus in a way that satisfies those desires. When you disarm the powerful urges behind an unhealthy behavior, you'll find that outward change happens almost automatically. For many, the greatest impact of Transforming the Heart is simply that it takes their relationship with God to a whole new level of intimacy and conversation. You will be amazed at how quickly and profoundly Jesus replies as you ask him to speak to your heart's desire.